Rules Of A Relationship

Anonymous asked: So I kinda want to become hook up buddies with my ex boyfriend from forever ago... but the thing is that all of my girlfriends really dont like him and so I know if I told them this they would freak and so if we did become hook up buddies I would want it to be a complete secret. The only thing is I reeeaallyy want to... but I do NOT want to get back together with him and would want to be liking other guys... what should I do??

You should make your decisions based upon what you think you want, not what your friends want.

Anonymous asked: Me and my ex girlfriend broke up 3 weeks ago. Her cousin is my best friends and she likes me, we've been best friends for 2 months, so she kind of loves me now. And there is this girl that I like and likes me too. We're going to be together soon. But I don't know what to tell my ex's cousin. What should I do?

just tell her. Don’t play any stupid games.

xoinfinityforeverandalwaysox asked: So im confused as to what i want to do with my life. I love my boyfriend to pieces but he feels that i don't show him enough love and care. I really try to everyday of my life. I want to break up with him because i know it's whats best for the both of us, but it's just hard because he's my first love :( We aren't meant to be because we bring out the worst in each other and the fights just get worse and worst everyday. What should i do? Im so heart is in so much pain </3

The break up isn’t going to be easy. Usually the right thing isn’t easy at all. The time will come when you are completely ready to move on. But being in an unstable relationship can be very unhealthy.

Anonymous asked: Okay.. so I've been hooking up with this guy who is known to be a player.. we have done everything .. and i do quite like him, but he doesn't want anything serious (as he has told me from the start) he keeps changing his mind about wanting a relationship and not wanting one and i don't know if i should continue texting and seeing him incase i get hurt, but i really just like the attention from him and i like his company and I'm not sure if i think its ok to be "friends with benefits" helpppp!!<3

I’d back off. if he’s saying he doesn’t want to be in a relationship, than he doesn’t want to be in a relationship. If he’s a player like you said, he’s ” changing his mind” because he wants to keep hooking up. Now its your turn to decide if he’s worth just hooking up with

Anonymous asked: i like this guy and weve recently broke up from over a year long relationship and were like best friends, should i tell him i still like him or just leave it?, what should i do? i dont want to make things different by telling him

the decision should be made upon whether you want to be with him or not. If you do, than tell him.

fallingstars4 asked: Really need HELP! I have these two guys...what do i do?. I am with this one guy who i have been with for over 9 months and I really care about him and we argue alot over little things, but i know we care about each other. On the other hand my ex started talking to me again and i know Im starting to gain some of those feelings back. My ex shows that he cares for me more then my boyfriend do now. I feel that i am gaining feelings for my ex because of how my relationship with my bf is going

If you really like “current Boyfriend” you wouldn’t be talking to another guy that might ruin your relationship.

Anonymous asked: An Ex and I broke up but we kept in touch and stayed friends. But we got into a stupid fight and now we haven't talked to two months until the other day when I texted her. I asked for her to forgive me but I didn't get a response. What should I do?

Is she just a friend? or Are there still feelings? Make sure you know this, she doesn’t have to respond to you. So stop stressing over it and stop thinking about it. Go do something to get your mind off of it. Sometimes we have to leave people behind in life and trust that its for the best.

Anonymous asked: Theres this guy I like, and he lives 2 hours away from me. I gave him my virginity April 1,2012 and we have not talked since. I have known hm for 5 years and he doesn't know how much I like him. There is also another guy that likes me a lot he even asked me out on the first date, but I told him we needed to take things slow, the reason I can't be with the other guy is because I can't take the guy that lives far away from me off my mind! What should I do?

You need to stop with the guy that lives 2 hours away. i hate to say it but he sounds like he doesn’t care whether he took your virginity, he cares that he got with you and quite frankly, i think he’s over it if he hasn’t talked to you since. Some people are straight up jerks! You gotta move on hun.

Anonymous asked: So there is this guy that I really like, and we have a lot in common and I know that we would get along great because we are so similar it's ridiculous. The problem is, I've never had a boyfriend and I've never actually really talked to him. I know, it's kind of creepy but, he intimidates me! I'm scared to talk to him. I'm shy until you get to know me so it's hard for me to start a conversation. What should I do?! I'm slightly desperate since he's moving away in a month for college...

there are two things you can do. You can over come your fear and just realize that he is too good to loose and get to know him to the point where you are comfortable. or decide to let it slip. He is leaving for college and you need to determine if you want to be in a long distance relationship. If the answer is yes, you know what you have to do.

Anonymous asked: I got into a fight with my girlfriend. I tried to apologize and everything but she just told me to leave her alone. We just stopped talking and now it's been two months. I still want to be friends with her cause what we fought about was stupid. What should I do?

Be Honest with her. Tell her the two of you are better than that and you would like to be friends.

Anonymous asked: I've been dating this guy for about 3 months i really like him,and i know hes really in to me but were always hanging with his friends and i dont really mind. But i just wish he'd take me out once in awhile and we could do other things. What do i do?

Stop waiting for him to ask you out and ask him out. Make the plans and take your part in your relationship.

Anonymous asked: I've been going out with this guy for 2 months and i just cant seem to open up to him completely and tell him how i feel...what do you think i can do to change this about me?!

Often it takes time or the right person. You decide if you just need to get comfortable or if he isn’t trust worthy.