helloidontthinkwevemet asked: I love your blog. I love how you give people advices and how wise you are at these things. I wish I was you, I wouldn't be stupid enough to date ones who will only break my heart. If you ever need anyone to talk to! I'm here :)
Haha you just made my night! Thank you!
Anonymous asked: I like this guy and recently we kissed and he said that he likes me back. Its been two weeks and we've still been talking but nothing else has really happened. Should I do something or wait for him to say something?
Say something. Take control of the situation but don’t be needy or controlling.
undertheboardwalkboardwalk asked: This guy texts me everyday, takes me out, is super concerned when he heard I wasn't feeling well to the extent of taking me to the doctor himself, says he misses me all the time, has a cute nickname for me and doesn't keep it a secret in front of all of our friends that he likes me. Perfect right? Thing is he hasn't declared it official yet that we're bf/gf. Should I be worried? ps: this has been going on for 3 months now.
No don’t worry about it. Don’t rush thins. Sometimes it’s better to take your time to make things official. Its gives you more of a stable ground to build on.
Anonymous asked: Hi my partner changes from hot (affectionated) to cold ( lot less affectionated) when I ask what's wrong with him, then he gets irritated and thinks I am intruding in his mood swings.
When he’s “cold” i would just lay off a bit. Some people often like their space.
Anonymous asked: Hey! So i dont know what to do! I'm with guy buy my mom doesn't like him and his mom doesn't like me. We hardly do anything after school or even on the weekends, together. But i'm thinking i should tell my mom about us, but he's telling me not to because if his mom found out about us, he would have to move in with his dad and then we really wouldn't be able to go out but what should i do should i listen to what my heart is telling me or should i just break up with him?
Always listen to your heart no matter the situation.
thinhappyrevolution asked: Hey!There is one boy that I like.He is on the 3rd semester of college and I'm on the 1st one. Tomorrow me and half of my classmates are going to hang out;he and some of his classmates are invited as well. I asked him,if he will be there, he said yes. So I want to make sure if he likes me or not. How can I find it out?Any advice?What should I do to show him that I'm interested in him?Also,if he doesn't look at me much,does it mean,he doesn't like me?He didn't look at me much,last time we hanged o
I wouldn’t ask him if he likes you or not. But start with the flirting. When you laugh look at him. Ask him questions. Get to know each other. If he’s interested, a connection should form.
Anonymous asked: How I know if my boyfriend really likes or care about me ?
You just know by the way he treats you. How much attention does he give to you? When you’re in a bad situation does he help or back off? Is he talking to other women or just you?
Anonymous asked: Does good sex keeps a guy around ?
Yeah but for the wrong reasons.
Anonymous asked: What is therules for ex girlfriends I have a hardtime accepting that my brother can be just friend with his ex because she makes it clear she wants him. He tells me that he loves and wants me but his ex isstill in the picture, She texts all the time.
I think if its nothing more than texting, there isnt anything to worry about unless they’re “talking”. Just let him know or bugs you. Honesty and communication are key in a relationship.
Anonymous asked: If there is some guy that you had a 'thing' over the summer with & promised you he will ask you out. But now he has a girl friend, is there any chance of me getting him back? Like if i become friends with him again? Like i dont want to bother his current relationship beause i wouldnt want someone doing that to me, but like if he becomes single again, is there any chance of getting him back? & if so, how?
I dont want to hurt you but i would let him go. And i he see’s you moving on he might start to chase you again. Ever heard the term of being “too available”? Guys dont like that, it makes you look desperate. I say back off and let him do the chasing.
Anonymous asked: Are there any rules about when you are in a relationship about out relationship contacts, should you forget them or is it okay to contact them? When a person says they have nothing to hide but the put everything under lock and key are they worthy of your trust? If you find out that your lover is calling another opposite sex person and you ask them about it and they tell you it is only a friend and then later you find out they were lovers how do you handle the situation?
Leave it alone. That person wasnt worth your time. Move on. Its the best thing for you. Never tolerate a cheater. Ever.
Anonymous asked: dinner was at 4 I told my boyfriend, he didn't show, I called at 430 to see where he was, he said 2 minutes away, I said what took you so long, he would not answer the second time and then I got none of your business, later he said I don't know how to ask questions and he got mad, he said what is the difference any way your daughter was there. He said I was rude when I wasn't even mad since the dinner ran late anyway. My heart is breaking for all the inconsideration I've got, what do u think?
Maybe he feels the same way. Find other ways to ask why he was late and let him know you dont need to be waiting around for 30 minutes for him. Ask him to call you letting you’ll know he’ll be late. Just relax and stay calm and talk to him nicely with respect. You’ll get the answer you need if you ask him questions how you would want him to ask you.
Anonymous asked: how often do you answer the questions
As much as i can. I really try hard to but i’m a super busy person. Please dont hesitate to ask though.