Rules Of A Relationship

Anonymous asked: When i meet new people most people know me by 'his' ex. Most people will ask me if i knew him or if i did stuff with him. I like my ex friend now, but my ex is not around is this okay ?

I dont see the issue.

Anonymous asked: I like this guy. We've hung out before and It was interesting and fun.I want to tell him i like him, but not really obviously and I want to let him know I've liked him for a while. We sit together in class but i dont have the gutts to tell him. What should i do ?

Hint at it. Make him figure it out himself.

Anonymous asked: Me and my boyfirend broke up 10 days ago. Weve been together for 4 years and 3 months. I talked to him 2 days ago. Im telling him that i want him back. He didnt reply with a yes or no. Until now we are arguing. Cos he's jealous with my friend. I dont know if im going to hold on or i just need to move on :( weve got a lot of problems right now. I dont trust him anymore. Cos hes a womanizer :( i love him and im willing to accept him. :( please help me :(

Communication is the key. 4 years is a long time and its easy to loose yourself in that amount of time. I would give each others some space. Recollect yourself and find yourself again, then make your decision to talk to him or not.

Anonymous asked: There is this guy that I like, and he likes me back, and we used to text and talk all the time. We went to the movies recently and ever since, he has been acting weird. He doesn't text me a whole lot anymore and some other things have been going on and it kinda makes me feel like he doesn't care/ like me anymore. He wants to date me but with the way he's been acting, idk if he really does or not.

Dont tie yourself down to one guy when you arent required to or truly feel the need to. If he’s acting shady find other options. Im sure he’s not the only guy around.

Anonymous asked: okay so me and my best friend have been talking and messing around for awhile, he said he wanted to tell me his feelings but he's too afraid.. yesterday we had sex.. i was his first and didnt realize until after. he kept saying how much he loved me and what not.. i realized my feelings for him, but i dont know what to do!

I would continue on if thats what you wish to do. Sometimes the best relationships are founded off a best friend relationship.

Anonymous asked: My spouse just got a new suv,while getting instructions on how to operate all the features of her new suv she was very much interested in learning how to delete incoming calls from the calls history of the Bluetooth hands free phone option that came with suv.I did not know if should call foul or let it go. It feels like I have a cheater,Help!!!!

The worst thing you can do is assume. And the best thing you can do is communicate. Talk to her.

Anonymous asked: How can I say to someone I like that I like him, I love him without getting any rejection?

There is never a guarantee you wont be rejected. Go with what your heart tells you.

Anonymous asked: My bf of a year, drunkenly cheated on me while I was away for the holidays during new years eve. I found out a week ago and have forgiven him as of this weekend. I'm worried that I'm rushing too fast into what we were before everything happened and that my quick forgiveness will make him think that he can get away with something similar again.. Do you think I should slow things down and make him work for it or try and go back to the way things were? I don't know how to act since forgiving him

First off giving someone a second chance after an incident like that, things wont just pop back into place like they were before. Yes, i think he should have to put in some effort to win you back. You’re worth more than being cheated on. But in the same sense , keep in mind a relationship will not work without effort from both of you.

Anonymous asked: Hey, im sorry if Youre busy! Answer this when you can :) it's been two years now since i've been dating and I live in a pretty small town, i want to start dating again life for me is going well but I miss caring for someone. How would I go about dating again? Thank you! :)

Well first you have to find someone to date! Why don’t you try putting yourself out there more. Start going to public events. Hang out with big groups of friends where you might meet someone new.

maakemeforget asked: I'm dating this guy and he has a twin. While hes so nice and polite his brother seems to hate me. My boyfriend also never sticks up for me when this happens. What does this mean ?

It just means your boyfriend doesn’t want to put you before his family. Don’t take it to the heart. He is probably avoiding an argument or fight with his brother.

Anonymous asked: How can I help my boyfriend realize just how much I'm worth? I've tried showing him in my actions, but all my kindness and caring gets me is lies and disrespect.

You can’t show someone your worth. You have to walk and talk with confidence and be strong and faithful in who you are. You have to know your worth to earn respect. But as for him, don’t worry about him. Someone else out there will know your worth without you having to prove anything.