Is it ok to ask for your advice? I’ve met a boy, he’s very sweet and he always makes me laugh. On New Years Eve we kissed. He says he has feelings for me. But he isn’t sure he wants a relationship, because he’s afraid of commitment and relationships scares him. We still talk, but just like friends. And that’s really hard for me, because I’m in love with him. Should I just ignore my feelings and be his friend? I don’t want to lose him. (I’m sorry if my English isn’t that good)
Don’t force him to do anything he doesn’t want to, that never works.
Just let whatever happen, happen. If its meant to be, it will be.
Hello!So i am dating a korean boy ( my little kimchi:3) I was wondering if I should care if the parents disapprove of me? I did a lot of studying on korean tradition and such and it says that the girlfriend doesnt meet the parents until the couple is getting married, my bf and i arent quite at that stage but we talk about it. They know that i am not korean but since they are more americanized i want to meet them and see if theyll be ok with me being with their only son ( sorry i have a part 2)
Ok to continue! so parents approval means A LOT to me because i come from a very respectful family and i wouldnt really want to make his parents unhappy. I love him to death but i dont want his family to hate me. if his parents disapprove of me, what should i do? I really dont want to give him up because he says that his parent's opinion doesnt matter to him. (he also says that they wont care as long as he's happy. im kinda torn HALP D;
Don’t get too caught up with what you”think” his parents think. Your boyfriend is right. If you are happy with him and he is happy with you, His parents should be happy as well. If they do happen to disapprove of you, ask yourself, Are you in a relationship with your boyfriend or his parents? I don’t mean to sound like his parents aren’t important, they are! just don’t base the future of your relationship on them
i was together with a guy for over a year and as cheesy as it sounds it was love at first sight. over time tho he started hanging with this group who ultimately turned him into a monster. i know its not the real him cuz well i just know. we broke up but now are talking again and i sometimes see glimpses of the old him. i wanna bring the old him back entirely, let him know that he doesn't have to be fake. any advice as to what i should do?
Don’t force him to be anything. He will find who he is eventually, give it time. Don’t give up on him entirely, but don’t rely your whole love life on him either. Just keep in mind people change.
Im afraid to have a relationship because i messed up with the old one ,in this moment im single and i dont have a crush on someone,but im thinking sometimes and i almost cry. I never find out how is to love or being in love.
Everyone Messes up. It’s human nature. Don’t force yourself into any relationships, it won’t end good. The right person will come around, Just wait. It won’t be easy waiting for them, but it’ll be worth it. I promise; Stay strong.
me and my girlfriend argue a lot.. mostly because of jealousy! there is this one boy i get really jealous of, and she gets jealous of this one girl... is it best if i just show her its me she needs and not him, and let them be friends? and what things could i do to stop being so jealous over the smallest things?:(
You should probably be spending more time with your girlfriend than that girl and same goes for her. Make her busy with you so she doesn’t have time with him. But don’t control her. Let her have friendships, she may even be asking him for advice about you. To keep yourself from getting jealous just remind yourself that if she didn’t love you she wouldn’t still be with you. I would suggest both of you find ways to spark things up again (do fun things together, have long deep, romantic conversations, bring her gifts, etc..) so that you are reminded of what you have. If what you have is real, and you know that, you can keep yourself from being jealous.
idk, I always distance myself when i have a problem. maybe i should be away from him for sometime. to think about it again, i love our friendship and i dont want to end it just because what i feel. that would make me a selfish person. Thanks but hell no if he's trying to come out with nickname. I'm going to kill him if he does it. hahaha.
Don’t distance yourself too much. But if you do distance yourself at all, think about this; even if he happens to like you back, which will last longer, Your friendship or relationship?
I've known this guy for quite sometime, and i have a crush on him. the thing is he constantly treat me as a guy when I am a girl. It annoys me so much. he treat other girl perfectly but with me? he call me bro and other stuff. I want to end this friendshp we have bcs this crush is killing me and i know i am in a friend zone. do you think it's right? i'm confused. :(
The question is, do YOU think it’s right. And the question to keep your heartbreaking is, does HE think its right? If he’s calling you bro and you feel as if he treats you like a guy, maybe you’re letting him too much. Try doing things with him that show off your girly side like shop for cute clothes and ask for his opinion, or take him to a movie you think is more of something girlish that you’d both like. Also, keep in mind he may even be trying to come up with a nick name if he’s calling you bro. Even my boyfriend calls me dude sometimes… Guys seem to just say whatever comes to their minds at the moment.
Use everything you know about her to make it special. Make sure you get to know her as well as you can before asking and make sure you both feel its right. I always ask myself if I can see myself lasting with the person I want to be with. Try it. You’ll feel when it’s the right time.