April 2013
13 posts
Anonymous asked: Okay! So i have a boyfriend and we've been going out for almost a month. The thing is people call him a player. I don't feel so 'cause yeah he likes me. But now when i finally, seriously, like him back I have a feeling he doesn't feel the same way as he did before , and its not even a month. I try talking to him but I feel its just getting worse. What should i do?
Anonymous asked: What I don't get about relationships is the 'nice guy complex'. It recently suffered from it and I don't understand why girls respond to nice guys in the way they do. I mean I would love for someone to come along and be as in love with me as I was with her. It seems my aspirations to be the 'perfect' boyfriend and if you like prove my love caused the break up, which I...
Anonymous asked: Boy Advice: I met this guy a month ago and he lives across the road from me. We spend almost every night together in his garage talking, sometimes until 1-2 AM. He'll take me for 2 hour long drives in his truck just because he can. And he teases me a lot. But he hasn't shown any sort of evident flirting? Could he like me?
infinitelovedimwit asked: My boyfriend always brings up the past, the mistakes I did. He can't seem to move on. When I do one mistake, he starts bringing it all up. What's wrong ? Dunno what to do.
Anonymous asked: My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. We met, and I fell in love with him. (2yrs online friends, dating after visit),It's been a little over a month since then, and I'm losing feelings for him.. what can I do to get them back? :l
Anonymous asked: hi me and my boyfriend are in relationship about 6month but nothing is going right i love him but he keep saying that he don't love me and he think he'll never have feelings for me so we breakup 3weeks later he called me and he say that he went to look for me at my house but i wasn't there so i give him my phone number so he can call me. he called me last time and ask me what do i...
Anonymous asked: been in relationship 5 mo.. He says i am beautiful and incredible. He moved in and out in a month-said he felt overwhelmed not ready for that sort of commitment- he is not calling much. He says he loves me and doesn't want to see anyone else but doesnt want a serious realtionship. He barely calls. Do I confront him or just ignore him and wait until he text or calls
Anonymous asked: After a year of doubts I finally started getting closer with this guy. He's amazing and was really interested in me, I was just worried about his Casanova reputation... But he seemed to be serious about me, so we've texting to each other lately, flirting and planning a date. And then he didn't show up for the first date! No calls or messages. I'm really hurt and offended, but...
Anonymous asked: i really like this kid. we text all the time, and acts like he likes me by what he says. but anytime we are in public he acts like i'm not even there... so what do i do? is he to shy and just wants to hangout alone? or is he just leading me on...
Anonymous asked: My boyfriend and I are together in 1 years 3 months and but before we met and not friends because he like me and asked me out i accept. Is it weird?
Anonymous asked: Me and this boy used to like eachother but then he got a girlfriend. I still really liked him and in think he still felt something for me. He cheated on his girlfriend with me and now they've broken up but were not as close as we used to be but we still flirt! I don't know whether to go in for it with him or wait and see what he does? but we've been on off for about a year! Help!
Anonymous asked: i need your help, please. I'm unsure as to how to deal with a situation I'm in. I have a boyfriend that ive been dating for three months. We get along but have differences that i feel get in between us. Things like he talks so little compared to me and I'm more out there where as he just likes to be quiet... completely different personalities. Ive had a crush on someone for a year...
March 2013
38 posts
Anonymous asked: over the summer me and this guy messaged an flirted almoast everyday, and i was going to ask him out but there is a couple of problems. he is almoast 2 years older than me and we've never met. my bestfriend and him are friends and she says that we would get along well, but he lives on the east coast and i live on the weat coast.
Anonymous asked: I've been dating this guy for about 2 months. Everything was great in the beginning, I fell in so quickly. I got attached. Lately we've been off and on, and he was talking to one of his exs who is in a relationship, and they dated over a year ago. He's been having sudden mood swings, and it seems like I have to walk on eggshells when talking to him. Should I give up? Or should I...
Anonymous asked: what do you think about you know, doing stuff through webcam, i mean is this a good idea for long distance relationships, what's the limit?
Anonymous asked: I really, and I mean REALLY like this guy.. I've liked him since the beginning of the year and I found out that he was going to ask me to the school prom.. he always looks at me during class and whenever I catch him, he blushes and looks away.. I like him so much and I want to talk to him.. he's been talking to me a bit more lately but I want to become proper friends.. Help me
Anonymous asked: there's this guy that i like but before i can actually approach and hint to him that i like him there's something that's been holding me back. i see that he's been talking with his ex gf. she's been posting on his wall and messaging him.he posted on her wall for her bday "happy bday have a great one but i bet uwon't bcuz u never come see me" and he posted on...
Anonymous asked: I like this girl and in Valentine's I gave her flowers and then i tried going on a date with her but she just keeps postponing. (P.S: We don't talk a lot and i have this feeling that maybe she ignores me)
Anonymous asked: while making out with my boyfriend, what should i do? play with his hair? pull his shirt? i dont wanna just sit there..lol
Anonymous asked: theres a boy from my church i've kinda been crushing on. he asked me out 2 years ago, and now that we are talking again... he flirts with me, more then i expected. he wants to hangout but what do i do to make it happen when he hasn't brought it up for weeks??
Anonymous asked: Hi! I had a LDR for I year. We couldn't see each other for seven months, and it became a bit cold between us. When I visited him in august, we had a great time but he became stressed with some exams he had and we started talking about our problems during these last months. Suddenly he decided we should break up. He told me I was too important for him, but now he doesn't talk to me. I...
Anonymous asked: I am 15 years old and the guy I am talking to is 18--he turns 19 in December. What is your opinion if I were dating someone 3 and a half years older than me?
Anonymous asked: My best friends little brother is amazing. He loves all the things I do and is cute too. But he's four years younger than me and my best friends brother. If we were the same age I'd be in love. I don't know how I feel. What should I do?
Anonymous asked: hey i'm from germany and i like a boy in my class. he's is really cute and hot and also a big asshole. sometimes he just ignores me and annoys me and sometimes he is so cute and make compliments and tell me that he loves me. but i think it's only a joke. so my question is: he likes me? not in the boyfriend girlfriend way just like a friend.
Anonymous asked: I'm 14 and talking with this guy who's 18. Do you have advice on how to tell my parents and how to make it work?
Anonymous asked: I like this guy, who likes my bestfriend and not me. We cuddled for a bit and she doesnt know. He claims to feel guilty for this cuddling. We decided to forget it. But now I like him more and he likes her still even though we have a better connection and they barely talk. What do i do?
Anonymous asked: If there is some guy that you had a 'thing' over the summer with & promised you he will ask you out. But now he has a girl friend, is there any chance of me getting him back? Like if i become friends with him again? Like i dont want to bother his current relationship beause i wouldnt want someone doing that to me, but like if he becomes single again, is there any chance of getting...
Anonymous asked: How to do move on from someone who you really truly thought was the one who made you feel complete, someone you saw growing old with ? You're used to speaking everyday to your loved one, being with eachother everyday regardless of anything and all of the sudden its all gone in a flash. It hurts and it feels like it'll never be better. this is the 2nd deep heartbreak i have ever gone thru...
Anonymous asked: there's this dude who likes me and he's pretty cool but sometimes he's fall into this thing where all he talks about is like oh i love cuddling with you, you're so cute and cuddly, and stuff like that. honestly, it makes me sick. i just don't have patience for that sort of thing., i hate being flattered. i want to get to know him and talk to him, not waffle around about...
Anonymous asked: When i meet new people most people know me by 'his' ex. Most people will ask me if i knew him or if i did stuff with him. I like my ex friend now, but my ex is not around is this okay ?
Anonymous asked: I like this guy. We've hung out before and It was interesting and fun.I want to tell him i like him, but not really obviously and I want to let him know I've liked him for a while. We sit together in class but i dont have the gutts to tell him. What should i do ?
Anonymous asked: Me and my boyfirend broke up 10 days ago. Weve been together for 4 years and 3 months. I talked to him 2 days ago. Im telling him that i want him back. He didnt reply with a yes or no. Until now we are arguing. Cos he's jealous with my friend. I dont know if im going to hold on or i just need to move on :( weve got a lot of problems right now. I dont trust him anymore. Cos hes a womanizer :(...
Anonymous asked: There is this guy that I like, and he likes me back, and we used to text and talk all the time. We went to the movies recently and ever since, he has been acting weird. He doesn't text me a whole lot anymore and some other things have been going on and it kinda makes me feel like he doesn't care/ like me anymore. He wants to date me but with the way he's been acting, idk if he...
Anonymous asked: okay so me and my best friend have been talking and messing around for awhile, he said he wanted to tell me his feelings but he's too afraid.. yesterday we had sex.. i was his first and didnt realize until after. he kept saying how much he loved me and what not.. i realized my feelings for him, but i dont know what to do!
Anonymous asked: My spouse just got a new suv,while getting instructions on how to operate all the features of her new suv she was very much interested in learning how to delete incoming calls from the calls history of the Bluetooth hands free phone option that came with suv.I did not know if should call foul or let it go. It feels like I have a cheater,Help!!!!
Anonymous asked: How can I say to someone I like that I like him, I love him without getting any rejection?
Anonymous asked: My bf of a year, drunkenly cheated on me while I was away for the holidays during new years eve. I found out a week ago and have forgiven him as of this weekend. I'm worried that I'm rushing too fast into what we were before everything happened and that my quick forgiveness will make him think that he can get away with something similar again.. Do you think I should slow things down and...
Anonymous asked: Hey, im sorry if Youre busy! Answer this when you can :) it's been two years now since i've been dating and I live in a pretty small town, i want to start dating again life for me is going well but I miss caring for someone. How would I go about dating again? Thank you! :)
maakemeforget asked: I'm dating this guy and he has a twin. While hes so nice and polite his brother seems to hate me. My boyfriend also never sticks up for me when this happens. What does this mean ?
Anonymous asked: How can I help my boyfriend realize just how much I'm worth? I've tried showing him in my actions, but all my kindness and caring gets me is lies and disrespect.
helloidontthinkwevemet asked: I love your blog. I love how you give people advices and how wise you are at these things. I wish I was you, I wouldn't be stupid enough to date ones who will only break my heart. If you ever need anyone to talk to! I'm here :)
Anonymous asked: I like this guy and recently we kissed and he said that he likes me back. Its been two weeks and we've still been talking but nothing else has really happened. Should I do something or wait for him to say something?
undertheboardwalkboardwalk asked: This guy texts me everyday, takes me out, is super concerned when he heard I wasn't feeling well to the extent of taking me to the doctor himself, says he misses me all the time, has a cute nickname for me and doesn't keep it a secret in front of all of our friends that he likes me. Perfect right? Thing is he hasn't declared it official yet that we're bf/gf. Should I be...
Anonymous asked: Hi my partner changes from hot (affectionated) to cold ( lot less affectionated) when I ask what's wrong with him, then he gets irritated and thinks I am intruding in his mood swings.
